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Re: im trying to keep going 😕
Hey @eylah , I'm sending you the biggest hug 
I hear you're missing your mum so desperately right now, and truly it sounds devestating - missing your best friend in the whole world and for so much to have changed. It feels like you're dealing with the deepest heartache, and I'm so glad you could post here and let us know so we can be with you in this even a little bit.
You said you're completely exhausted, and it sounds like there's a part of you that really, really needs things to change now - you feel like you can't just keep suffering like this. It's not feasible or okay. And that is so, so valid. I can imagine it's potentially super overwhelming to hear your GP say that she doesn't know what to do, because you don't want to be stuck. What do you mean when you say you're letting yourself down? That sounds like a heavy thing to feel on top of everything else.
Keep us posted, Eylah. This is your community. You're doing so well reaching out to us and your GP
I hear you're missing your mum so desperately right now, and truly it sounds devestating - missing your best friend in the whole world and for so much to have changed. It feels like you're dealing with the deepest heartache, and I'm so glad you could post here and let us know so we can be with you in this even a little bit.
You said you're completely exhausted, and it sounds like there's a part of you that really, really needs things to change now - you feel like you can't just keep suffering like this. It's not feasible or okay. And that is so, so valid. I can imagine it's potentially super overwhelming to hear your GP say that she doesn't know what to do, because you don't want to be stuck. What do you mean when you say you're letting yourself down? That sounds like a heavy thing to feel on top of everything else.
Keep us posted, Eylah. This is your community. You're doing so well reaching out to us and your GP
Sian321
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Re: im trying to keep going 😕
@eylah im sending hugs❤️ even if i may feel like it i promise you are not alone. i hope you’re doing a little better now? is there anything you could do that could help distract you, maybe like a movie or music or anything like that ❤️
Re: 19M looking for friends
@JMMV2005 oh no 😔, im joking but h2o is literally my childhood, it’s that one mermaid show set in Australia! That sounds so fun with your friend!!
@eylah im pretty good today I’ve just had chill day doing hw sadly but im gonna watch Gilmore girls soon which always makes me happy! what’s your fav tv show or movie
@eylah im pretty good today I’ve just had chill day doing hw sadly but im gonna watch Gilmore girls soon which always makes me happy! what’s your fav tv show or movie
Re: im needing pelvic surgery 😣
hey @eylah - like the others have all said, i can imagine it is a scary time for you at the moment with the surgery to happen at some point. whilst i can't give much advice (as i've never had a surgery), just wanted to also say you're feelings are totally understandable given everything you've been through recently. it's good to hear you'll have your sister there to be with you and support you. and i'm sure the doctors and nurses and whoever else will do their absolute best to make you feel as comfortable and at ease as they can.
sending you lots of hugs
Sinead
sending you lots of hugs
Sinead


